rejoicing without conflict

                                                                     
                                             
dont do anything too much
anything in extreme shd be dropped
when u love some body,,u over power them,
u nausicate them, and they run away from u
have some restrain,,, tnats the way to preserve love

those who have exterme love only break up,,, they express too much
its the discipline which gives you freedom....freedom in the long run!
dont have to be rigid abt it,,,but yet its good to have certain disciplines
people in love often donot follow any discipline, they eat, drink, sleep at waht ever time,,


rejoicing in the self without any conflict
when u begin to enjoy some th, some conflict arises with in you

relaxing into the self---- to avoid any conflicts
but this may not work for every one  -- then Narada says
offer everything to the divine,,,at the feet of the divine,,,
whenever i am  miseable -- i have to remember that i have forgotten divinity,,
i have to remember divine loves me unconditionaly,, and this misery will not be there

love and longing to togather,,
if there is no longing there is no love at all
for love to live longing is essenstial,,,,longingggg only makes love to live long

restlessness and longing are teh signs of true love...dont try to get rid of them
donot suffocate any body keep some space..

love can never be complete,,,completion means the end,
longing keeps it alive,,, makes it long