LOVE8

anxiety kills love and love destroys all negativity. Offer everything to divine, worries dont touch you, they pass like a
passing cloud.

love a hidden secret:


feelings are subtler than thoughts they are difficult to hide, finer than the feelings is love, almost impossible to hide.
the more you hide the more it comes into expression. there is a beauty to it, the love which is hidden expresses it in so many ways,
you dont have to tell sb that you love them, your walk, talk will all convey that love , your mere presence will ooze that love,
love cannot be expressed fully at the same time you cant hide it.

So narada says: One who attains divine love,throat chokes and hairs stand up, the thrill manifests in all the actions.
they are unable to speak properly, express properly. they blabber...words wont easily flow. blabbering comes because of
the inability to express love.

You meditate and every one will feel secured in ur company, in ur presence, ur love wil bring such a magnetic impact around u,
closed to you, they feel comfortable close to you. the  world finds its mentor.


love knows no boundaries:
what kills love is argument, dont argue, argue means disagreement, love knows no disagreement. love means yes mind.
through arument you cant convince any body to change their feelings, change their heart.
through demand u cant make any one love you, its impossible, even if little love is ther it will also evaporate.
we become so greedy that the other person should love us and we start demanding. then argument starts,
you dont care for me...bla bla

take others love for granted, even if they donnot love you know that they love you so dearly.
with whome you would like to be with- some one who is asking you to proov your love or some one who takes your love for-grated and moves ahead with a smile.

if you want sb to proov their love to you, then it becomes a big burden on their head...same is true for yourself also.
take some things for-granted, love is one of them, take it for granted that the other person loves u so dearly even if they donot.
whatever little love u have in between will not diminish.

by demand and argument love only diminshes.

if u find sb doesnt love u as much as they used to be, dont demand it, be joyfull and enthusiastic, take other person's love for-granted, this makes them so much comfortable. this assumption, the very attitude of yours will increase the other person's love for u.

but if you ask the other person to proov their love, this demand will only diminsh the love.
donot demand form any body to proov their love to you, this wil make them comfortable.

why any one will love u? - because you give them comfort. but if u argue with them will u be giving them comfort?! - NO!

dont expect divine love from every body, only saints, wise people can give u un-conditional love.
from ur side if you give comfort to some one than what you get back is love.

take it for granted that every body loves u makes u at ease with your self, and when you are at ease with yourself
then you will see that every one will start pouring love on you.

actions, words cant proov the love, actions and word are dependable, they both depend on the area of logic,
love doesnot depend on the logic.

listen to the knowledge that talks about love, all the activity that kindles love in you, just do it!r
if a simple gesture of yours can bring joy and comfort to others just do it, simple acts of kindness will keep
the love alive.

dont say that my love doesnot depend on logic and i dont need to express it - NO!
you need to express it because not every body will understand it. you dont demand from others but there are certain things you can do to make others comfortable, definitly do that.
and read about love, devotion, study the life of the saints, study how your master/guru would have handled this
situation, putting yourself in that place as part of the divine can bring a new avenue in life.

listening to these sutras once is not enough, u have to listen to it again and again.
similarly acts of kindness u have to do it again and again.

if by nature you are a kind person your company will be loved by every body in the whole world.
Story of guruji stole tea bags - Feelings is what matters not actions or words, so you take it for granted that there is love in everybody.

dont get bothered by small silly things in love, that is the way to blossom divine love.